So with all of the below posts said and done here is something to read which gave me some clarity " Twenty is for you. It's for growth. It's for the pursuit for tomorrow that is better than today. It's for options. It's for passion and knowledge and enjoyment. It's not for compromise. It's not a time to say, ' this is the guy I gotta make it with because this is the guy that I'm with and no matter what compromises, no matter what I don't like , no matter what he does, I have to put up with him.' Twenties is for firing dudes when they don't act right. Twenties is for figuring out what you like in certain men. It's for finding out what kind of different men are out there; which ones you want to keep which ones you want to discard. It's not for picking up other peoples clothes, it's not for sticking it out when you're not enjoying it anymore. Twenties is for opportunity to move on; upward, forward. Get a large life so even if a dude doesn't end up in it, you still enjoy it. Twenties is for creating all that potential and not just compromising your way into a corner of a closet somewhere wondering what the hell happened? You don't have any children, you're beautiful! Don't look for time off to go and spend time with him, go spend it on books or whatever..." Watch the original here - https://youtu.be/iw7-vfXQJ20 And in other news, I've taken up going on all the dates that I had wanted us to have because I am not missing out on these opportunities merely because a guy doesn't see the value in them. To follow that you can find me on Instagram - @hulisanik with the #HowHuliGotHerHeartBack
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