1. Sugar daddy post “Dear Sugar Daddy. Last month we celebrated Christmas. It was probably a difficult month for you. I mean you have your wife at home to buy gifts for as well as your own kids and extended family that may live on your property. Crucial to that however you can’t forget that you have your sugar baby waiting on the sidelines. All year you have showered her with gifts and December really shouldn’t have been any different. In fact, considering the standard that you have set during the year I expect that Sugar Baby was going to be hopeful for a pricey gift. It goes without saying that you may not have seen Sugar Baby a lot during this festive period for many reasons including the fact that your wife is at home 24/7 or because Sugar Baby has been sent to visit granny for the holidays. I mean, she is only 16 after all…” 2. Making friends online“Dear Olivia "I wanted to write this to you and tell you how thankful I am that I finally met you. When we first interacted in the middle of last year I didn’t think that we would be chatting daily. After tagging you incorrectly on my natural hair page (AfroHealthSA) you corrected me but then still went on to follow the page. Soon after that you followed my private account and as I usually do, I followed back. A few weeks later you sent me a direct message and asked if you could do a post about me on your website. As we chatted through emails I found that you were a nice human being. My gut told me that you were genuine and when you mentioned your desire to come to South Africa I gave you my number and told you to send me a message if you didn’t think I was too weird. I kind of expected you to just say thank you and never make use of my number, but…” That time I hosted a Body Image series and there were some awesome pieces written for me by some of my friends. 3. One by the lovely Habrey “One of my most vivid memories of high school involves me hiding under my desk, crying. I'd been telling friends of mine about a 5km run/walk I'd done with my family the weekend before. A boy in my class called me a liar. How could someone who could do a 5k possibly be as fat as me?! Meet 13year old me:…” 4. One by my twin Michelle “… I was in grade 4 and the Leon Schuster movie, (a name I conveniently forget) had come out into cinemas and was all the rage. At some point during this period it was decided that I was no longer cool by the friends that I had proclaimed to be my BFFs. At this stage, I hadn't realized that I had slowly been ostracized from my group of friends, in my mind they were always just busy, until one day they accidentally on purpose bumped into me, raised their right and said "Owe, fat one". It was the first time in my life I had realized that my looks were a contributing factor in whether or not society would accept me. After all, if my very best friends were able to find flaw in who I was as a person because of my looks, what was to stop total strangers from judging me on the same grounds. …” 5. One by my girl crush Yolanda “… At a young age I was immediately made aware of the fact that I was not like “them” (the people you should aspire to look like). As a black, short, chubby girl with afro textured hair, the media and all its agents did not hesitate in letting me know that I was definitely not the “in” thing. None of the people on television or in magazines looked like me and if they did, they were far from being the “cool kids”. The world of comparison had unleashed its whip on me, setting me straight and ready to conform. The dream of fitting in and being accepted had been sold and I had bought it, I was willing to do whatever I could to validate my existence. If it meant skipping a meal or two, I was in, staying out of the sun for that yellow bone complexion, relaxing my hair with those dangerous chemicals for that “white girl swing”, best believe I was in!...” 6. A post dedicated to a male friend of mine “… Pictures were taken and food was served. We sat around the table and for the third time work came up. This time you asked me why I work for a small firm. I told you that black women in large firms get swallowed up in the works and aren’t recognized for their personal brilliance and rather for how many points they can score the company in terms of equity practices. Here you didn’t let it go. Nope, this time you loudly said, “Wow! That’s the third time you are mentioning that you are a black woman in the professional world. Doesn’t it get tiring?” Being that we were at a wedding I held my tongue because I didn’t think that the other guests would have appreciated the only black girl at the wedding living up to her stereotype and giving you a tongue lashing. Rest assured though that there were plenty of things that I wanted to say. For one. Screw you and all your white privilege…" 7. That time that I decided that my name is important in its complete and whole form.“Okay so let’s go back to that definition of reappropriation. "...- Reappropriation entails reclaiming something that was previously used in a way that gave it little worth. See how in Exhibit A you decided within seconds of hearing my name that you already wanted an alternative? You wanted to disregard what I had said about my given name. My ‘useful tag’ that separates me from the next person was simply done away with in favour of another tag that had no relation to my existence. By doing away with my name you gave my name no worth at all. But who is to blame here?...”
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1. The Namaqualand Flower Route – South Africa (for the flowers even though I have allergies) 2. Victoria Falls – Zambia/Zimbabwe (for the waterfall) 3. Kiwengwa Village – Tanzania (for the beach) 4. Lake Natron – Tanzania’s Petrifying Lake!!! Harry Potter anyone?? 5. The Grand Canyon National Park – United States (for a hike) 6. Levanzo Island – Italy (boat trip) 7. Hirosaki Castle – Japan (to see the Cherry Blossoms) 8. Jerusalem – Israel (to see the Mount of Olives)
In no specific order.
These are just 9 of the 1 million books on my list. Sooooo many books. Sooooo little time. See you tomorrow where I list 8 places that I want to visit.
* With regards to racial matters and not the colour vision deficiency that occurs mostly in the male species. Let us start at the beginning. During the 1950s China signed the first official trade agreement between multiple African countries which included Algeria, Egypt, Guinea, Somalia, Morocco and Sudan. At the time of this signing China was to begin cultivating and offering support to African countries in the form of economic prospective, technical and military support.
Fast forward to 2015 and the foreign affairs minister of China, Wang Yi has announced that when it comes to Africa, China’s intentions are entirely well meaning. In fact China cares about Africa’s environment, and long term interests. (These interests include deals that incurred debt since the 1950s.) Earlier this month the Forum of Co-operation between China and Africa met in Johannesburg, South Africa. With that meeting came a $60 BILLION pledge over a 3 years. The deal in the form of loans and assistance from China to Africa. There are 10 new co-operation plans that will be rolled out in these three years which are as follows: –
It is widely known by investors that Africa is a great resource pool. It is the home of a wide range of natural resources that have been masked by plans like ‘Poverty Reduction’. China’s dealings are greatly influenced by Africa’s oil, iron and copper. A fact further solidified by the statistics of 2013 which showed that the key imports of China from Africa were as follows
Meanwhile our biggest import from China was machinery which accounted for 26% of all trade. This may not seem like a lot but let us not forget that we only import a ‘measly’ 8% of textiles and clothing from China and our local shops are filled with Chinese clothing. Despite some qualms by Western countries who oppose such dealings, African leadership is convinced that these deals are not only beneficiary to China but will be a great step forward for Africa as a whole. As I end this short note on China in Africa I ask you to think beyond the flashy lights that come with ANY investment by ANY country. Are investors here to invest in African businesses and infrastructure and in turn make sure that economic growth is self sustaining or is it merely a case of investors building their own companies that could be abandoned at any time? The above has been sourced mainly from the following pages: http://www.iol.co.za/business/opinion/what-focac-pacts-mean-for-africa-1.1957509#.VmflfEp97rc http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2168507/Footage-shows-brand-new-Angolan-city-designed-500-000-lying-empty.html#ixzz3toZz7Aow |
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